How to Mother Ourselves

What if we focused more on mothering our kids than on parenting them. It may seem a slight difference, but words matter. The words parenting and mothering have two very different sentiments. Parenting evokes this sentiment of protection and guidance. It has a...

Parents: We’re not just roles-we’re humans in relationships

Have you ever sat down and thought about a parent’s role? What the heck is our job?!?? According to society, the role of parents entails educating and socializing children to function in society. From a religious perspective, the role of a parent is to care for...

What’s Underneath Behavior?

We’ve become obsessed with our children’s behavior, but not in a good way. Our homes have become places where we police rather than share our priorities, concerns, and values. We focus on our kid’s behavior because we think it reflects our own...

Why Punishment Doesn’t Work

We’ve all been there. An older brother is bothering his younger brother and won’t stop. Now older brother is on top of the younger brother jumping on him. They’re both screaming. It’s loud and chaotic, and you want it to stop NOW. So you yell,...

It Starts With Us

I felt so confident when I became pregnant with my first child. I was ready. I felt like, “I got this!” However, my firstborn had other plans for me. She rocked my world in so many different ways. She was a force with which to reckon! I had to learn a new...

How Come I Can’t Stop Yelling At My Kids?

“I want my kid to listen without having to yell at him.” Sound familiar? I get it. When we yell, it feels like it’s our kid’s problem; in reality, it’s more about us than them when we yell. Yelling has become the new spanking. If we only...

How to Create A Rhythm For Your School Year

Ah, summer, the days seem to breeze by. Everyone in the family is generally in a good mood. We’re outside and not glued to a schedule. We usually do things at about the same time, but there is a relaxed, not as structured rhythm to it. Then August hits, and...
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